Goddess!!!

It’s something I know many of us, including myself, struggle with: self-compassion and confidence. We all have an inner critic—that voice inside our head that tells us we're not good enough, that we're failing, that we're not worthy of love and respect. And when we listen to that voice, we can become our own worst enemies, sabotaging our own happiness and success.

But there is another way! We can learn to cultivate self-compassion, to treat ourselves with kindness and understanding, and to boost our confidence and resilience in the face of life's challenges. That voice only gets to win if you let it! Here are five steps you can start practicing today that still really help me:

Tip #1: Recognize your inner critic. Who's voice is that anyway? The first step in cultivating self-compassion is to become aware of the critical voice inside your head. Notice when you're being hard on yourself, when you're judging yourself harshly, or when you're comparing yourself unfavorably to others. Take a moment to pause and acknowledge that voice, but remember that it's just a thought, not a fact. And just like author Kate Sturino says in her book "Body talk" Stop that dialogue hard with a "NOPE!"

Tip #2: Talk to yourself like you would to a great friend or an 8 year old little girl. Once you've recognized who your inner critic is, try to reframe the way you talk to yourself. Instead of beating yourself up, imagine what you would say to that friend or little girl who is going through the same situation. Offer yourself words of encouragement and support, and treat yourself with the same kindness and compassion that you would show to someone you love.

Tip #3: Practice mindfulness. Mindfulness is a powerful tool for cultivating self-compassion, as it allows you to observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment. Try to take a few minutes each day to sit quietly and focus on your breath, noticing any thoughts or feelings that arise without getting caught up in them. This can help you develop a greater sense of self-awareness and detachment from your inner critic.

Tip #4: Write your higher self a love letter. Take some time to write a letter to yourself from the perspective of your higher self, the part of you that is wise, compassionate, and loving. In this letter, offer yourself words of encouragement, forgiveness, and appreciation, reminding yourself of your inherent worth and value as a human being. This can be a powerful way to connect with your inner goddess and build your self-confidence.

Tip #5: Celebrate small victories. Finally, because we are soooo bad at this, remember to celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may seem! i wanna see you dancing, treating yourself to that piece of chocolate, owning that you are a badass goddess! Take a moment to acknowledge your efforts, whether it's completing a task, overcoming a fear, or simply taking care of yourself. By celebrating these small victories, you can build your self-esteem and reinforce the message that you are capable, deserving, and worthy of love and respect.

Remember, cultivating self-compassion is a practice, not a destination. It takes time, patience, and commitment to learn to treat yourself with kindness and understanding. But with each step you take, you can build your confidence, resilience, and sense of self-worth, becoming the empowered and self-loving goddess that you were always meant to be.

Your goddess sister,

Christy Arias